Be recognisably you
Write in your own voice and describe the qualities, interests and experiences that genuinely matter to you.
Make a genuine first impression
Creating an authentic dating profile
A thoughtful profile helps people see who you really are. Learn how to present yourself honestly, choose meaningful photos and attract members who appreciate the real you.
Create a profile that feels like you
Your story starts here
Authenticity makes it easier to find a real connection
Your profile does not need to impress everyone. Its purpose is to introduce you to the people who may genuinely appreciate your personality, values and outlook on life.
Being authentic does not mean sharing everything immediately. It means presenting yourself honestly while respecting your privacy and allowing trust to develop naturally.
The foundations
What makes a profile feel genuine?
Strong profiles combine honesty, personality and enough detail to give someone a natural reason to start a conversation.
Use recent photos
Choose clear and current photos that show your face, your personality and something of your everyday life.
Make conversation easy
Include specific interests or experiences that give another member something meaningful to ask about.
Share what you value
Explain what matters to you and what kind of connection you hope to build without creating a list of demands.
Writing your introduction
Tell a story instead of listing facts
A good introduction gives someone a sense of what spending time with you might feel like. Instead of only listing hobbies, add a little context and personality.
Instead of
“I enjoy travelling, films, music and going out.”
Try something more personal
“My ideal weekend combines discovering a quiet town, finding a restaurant we did not plan to visit and ending the evening with a film.”
Not sure what to write?
Start with a few simple questions
You do not need to write your entire life story. Choose the questions that reveal something meaningful about you.
What makes an ordinary day enjoyable?
Small details can say more about your personality than a broad list of interests.
What always makes you smile?
Humour, traditions and favourite moments help your profile feel warm and personal.
What would you still love to experience?
Aspirations reveal your curiosity and create space to imagine future experiences together.
What do you value in another person?
Focus on character and compatibility rather than creating a rigid checklist.
Choosing your photos
Let your photos add to your story
Your main photo should make it easy to recognise you. Additional photos can show more of your personality, interests and the life you enjoy.
Show your face clearly
Use a well-lit main photo without sunglasses, heavy filters or other people beside you.
Keep your photos current
Select photos that reflect how you look today, not how you looked several years ago.
Include something you enjoy
A hobby, destination or favourite activity can reveal more about your everyday life.
Keep editing natural
Good lighting is helpful, but filters should not change your appearance or create false expectations.
Honest and optimistic
Say what you want without closing the door
Being clear about your intentions helps you meet compatible people. The way you express those intentions determines whether your profile feels welcoming or restrictive.
Try to avoid
- Long lists of people who should not contact you
- Complaints about previous dates or relationships
- Exaggerating your lifestyle, interests or achievements
- Apologising for your age, appearance or preferences
Focus on
- The kind of connection you would like to develop
- The qualities and values you appreciate in others
- What you enjoy and would like to share with someone
- A warm invitation to begin a conversation
Protect your privacy
Be open without sharing sensitive information
Your profile can feel personal without including your home address, workplace, telephone number, financial information or details that could reveal your daily routine.
Share more gradually as trust develops, and keep early conversations on AgeGap until you feel comfortable.
Before publishing
Give your profile one final review
Read it once from the perspective of someone meeting you for the first time.
My introduction sounds like me
My photos are clear and recent
I have included specific interests
My intentions are expressed positively
I have protected my private information
There is an easy conversation starter
Ready to introduce yourself?
Create my AgeGap profile
Your profile is the beginning, not the entire story
Create an honest introduction, remain open to conversation and give the right people an opportunity to discover who you are.